tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8376486101032608138.post1521406905908741721..comments2023-05-23T03:11:52.240-06:00Comments on Mimsy's Musings: split screen sadnessEmily H.http://www.blogger.com/profile/18050887824783345673noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8376486101032608138.post-44077409133684025232008-07-22T14:55:00.000-06:002008-07-22T14:55:00.000-06:00You are dealing with the queen of this. I used to ...You are dealing with the queen of this. I used to be horrible about it. I would push people out for weeks or even months and then inevitably have to call, apologize, beg and plead for forgiveness and hope we can move on together. I'm really not sure what possessed me to treat people that I love that way. Looking back, I tended to shut them out when something was wrong with me personally. It seemed that was the way I would handle it. Seems crazy to me now because I LOVE to have people around.I have grown immensely and am happy to report that I have not done this in a while. Just the constant awareness of how it hurts others has helped me. Sure, there are times when I need some alone time. But I try with every ounce in my body not to shut people out.<BR/>I completely know how you feel though. Its so frustrating! <BR/>However, one thing I did notice throughout my struggle with this, is that my true friends have ALWAYS been there. Sure, some friends come and go but there are a handful that have stuck with me through my rotten stages. I am so thankful :)<BR/><BR/>PS- can I come to dinner with Ami too?!?Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03556118670246618252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8376486101032608138.post-10878815956696515522008-07-22T08:03:00.000-06:002008-07-22T08:03:00.000-06:00Oh how many times I've thought the same thing. Whe...Oh how many times I've thought the same thing. When I left Oklahoma I didn't take one friendship with me, after 18 years I should have valued them more. So now I'm left with no one who remembers "that time when we were 10". <BR/><BR/>Women are hard, period, even the nice ones tend to be too busy to fit you in but will gladly say hi everytime you see them. So I think you and I should become great friends. Let's meet next week for dinner.<BR/><BR/>http://mrsneedham.wordpress.com/2007/05/09/im-no-social-butterfly/<BR/><BR/>http://mrsneedham.wordpress.com/2007/06/01/perspective-perception-perfection/Mrs. Needhamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09058718815701646360noreply@blogger.com